Stop over sexualizing me. Yes, I may flaunt my body via social media and through my outfits, but that does not mean I am down to have sex with any and every man I come in contact with. I am literally just a carefree, Black, gay man who loves himself and the skin he's in. I present myself the way I do to display my self confidence. Being so sexualized has created so many different insecurities for me; Starting with trust issues when it comes to dating. I have to put up this wall and act emotionless to find out if guys actually desire to know me for me and not just to explore body. But, then there are guys who are willing to explore my mind and personality, which oftentimes erupt a mutual attraction. I don’t think it's fair that people associate my shirtless selfies and my self portraits in my underwear with how sexually active I am. People expect me to be some sort of sex expert just because I post these kinds of pictures, without even knowi
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